“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me” – Carol Burnett
I think one of the hardest lessons I have learnt in life but also one of the best lessons that I have learnt is what happens in my life is down to me.
I have the power to make myself happy so if there is something or someone that is making me unhappy then I have the power to change that. It is so important to surround yourself with people who make a positive impact on your life and removing the negative people. Sometimes removing the negative people is a very hard thing to do and you put it off for a very long time (I know I do). But it is so important to ensure that you make positive changes for your own sake. I think the saying ‘you are the average of the five people you send the most time with’ is so true!
In my previous posts I have spoken about how I have felt stuck in a rut and disinterested in a lot of the things I would normally enjoy. But identifying the things that were stopping me from enjoying those things and doing them has meant I have been able to fall back in love with them again.
Whatever is holding you back from something you have the power to over come it and do it or become it.